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This timely episode tackles an important topic that I’ve tried a few times to speak about. For the half of the population who are male, how are we supposed to “be a man”? In this episode 23, I make an attempt to answer this question using the same analytical lens through which I’ve dissected how we are all supposed to “be an adult.”
- The concept of masculinity is evolving, and traditional definitions centered around being a provider, protector, and procreator are becoming outdated as women can now fulfill these roles independently.
- The real battle is against oneself rather than against women or other men.
- Discussions around toxic masculinity does not provide constructive role models for young men to emulate.
- Role models for healthy masculinity are scarce, with examples like Mufasa from “The Lion King” and Keanu Reeves being cited for their positive traits and authenticity.
- Societal norms around gender are largely socially constructed, and men can redefine masculinity in ways that break away from outdated conventions.
- Be aware of your inherent power and strength, using it to uplift and support others rather than to intimidate or harm.
- Being a good man is synonymous with being a good person, regardless of gender.
- Identify role models who exhibit desirable qualities and strive to emulate them in daily life.
- Everyone has a unique path to happiness and success, and it’s essential for individuals to recognize their potential for growth and improvement over time.
Table of Contents:
00:00 – Intro
00:51 – How to “be a man”
02:13 – The inspiration behind the episode
05:21 – Healthy masculinity
07:52 – Men and women are apples and oranges
11:00 – The Tate hate
13:59 – Who are our male role models?
20:55 – The obligations of a man
28:52 – Do we need to atone for other men?
31:52 – Finding strength on your path to success
35:32 – A good man is a good person
41:10 – Outro
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Luke Chao and Pascal Langdale are the co-hosts of the How to Be an Adult podcast. Possessing of a philosophical approach to life, they are both keenly interested in improving the society they live in. In this podcast, they share their thoughts freely in order to democratize high-quality living.